How confession works now
“Zacheus, make haste and come down.”
In short. Confession of sins to a priest is an essential element of this sacrament, and by the priest’s absolution God grants the penitent pardon and peace.1 Every priest who hears confessions is bound to absolute secrecy, a seal that admits of no exceptions.2
Key points
- Only God forgives sins, and Jesus gives this power to men to exercise in His name.3
- The celebration ordinarily has a greeting, the word of God, confession, a penance, absolution and thanksgiving.4
- Contrition means sorrow for sin with the resolution not to sin again.5
- The sacramental seal admits of no exceptions.2
Try this, this week
- Read Luke 19:1-10. Notice who moves first.
- Use our examination of conscience the day before, slowly.
- Learn the Act of Contrition, or bring it on paper. That is allowed.
- Go at a quiet time, or call the parish to ask for an appointment.
“When Jesus came to the place, he looked up and saw him, and said to him, ‘Zacchaeus, hurry and come down, for today I must stay at your house.’ He hurried, came down, and received him joyfully.”
Watch out: what this does not mean
- Absolution takes away sin, but it does not remedy all the disorders sin has caused, which is one reason for the penance.7
- Confession of venial sins is not strictly necessary, but the Church strongly recommends it.8
Common questions
What if I cannot remember all my sins?
Video answer: Fr. Mark Goring on Pints with Aquinas, stoneandincense.com/en/questions/what-if-i-cannot-remember-all-my-sins/
The Church says that when the faithful strive to confess all the sins that they can remember, they undoubtedly place all of them before the divine mercy for pardon.6
Will the priest tell anyone?
Video answer: Ascension Presents, stoneandincense.com/en/questions/why-confess-to-a-priest-not-straight-to-god/
Every priest who hears confessions is bound under very severe penalties to keep absolute secrecy regarding the sins confessed to him.2 He can make no use of knowledge that confession gives him about penitents’ lives.2
Remember: Say it has been a long time. The priest will help.