1 Corinthians 7

¹ Now concerning the things about which you wrote to me: it is good for a man not to touch a woman.

² But, because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.

³ Let the husband give his wife the affection owed her, and likewise also the wife her husband.

⁴ The wife doesn’t have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise also the husband doesn’t have authority over his own body, but the wife does.

⁵ Don’t deprive one another, unless it is by consent for a season, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and may be together again, that Satan doesn’t tempt you because of your lack of self-control. Fathers

⁶ But this I say by way of concession, not of commandment. Fathers

⁷ Yet I wish that all men were like me. However, each man has his own gift from God, one of this kind, and another of that kind.

⁸ But I say to the unmarried and to widows, it is good for them if they remain even as I am.

⁹ But if they don’t have self-control, let them marry. For it’s better to marry than to burn with passion.

¹⁰ But to the married I command – not I, but the Lord – that the wife not leave her husband

¹¹ (but if she departs, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband not leave his wife.

¹² But to the rest I – not the Lord – say, if any brother has an unbelieving wife, and she is content to live with him, let him not leave her. Fathers

¹³ The woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he is content to live with her, let her not leave her husband.

¹⁴ For the unbelieving husband is sanctified in the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified in the husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. CCC · Fathers

¹⁵ Yet if the unbeliever departs, let there be separation. The brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us in peace.

¹⁶ For how do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife? CCC

¹⁷ Only, as the Lord has distributed to each man, as God has called each, so let him walk. So I command in all the assemblies.

¹⁸ Was anyone called having been circumcised? Let him not become uncircumcised. Has anyone been called in uncircumcision? Let him not be circumcised.

¹⁹ Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but what matters is keeping God’s commandments.

²⁰ Let each man stay in that calling in which he was called.

²¹ Were you called being a bondservant? Don’t let that bother you, but if you get an opportunity to become free, use it.

²² For he who was called in the Lord being a bondservant is the Lord’s free man. Likewise he who was called being free is Christ’s bondservant.

²³ You were bought with a price. Don’t become bondservants of men.

²⁴ Brothers, let each man, in whatever condition he was called, stay in that condition with God.

²⁵ Now concerning virgins, I have no commandment from the Lord, but I give my judgment as one who has obtained mercy from the Lord to be trustworthy. Fathers

²⁶ Therefore I think that because of the distress that is on us, it’s good for a man to remain as he is.

²⁷ Are you bound to a wife? Don’t seek to be freed. Are you free from a wife? Don’t seek a wife.

²⁸ But if you marry, you have not sinned. If a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Yet such will have oppression in the flesh, and I want to spare you.

²⁹ But I say this, brothers: the time is short. From now on, both those who have wives may be as though they had none;

³⁰ and those who weep, as though they didn’t weep; and those who rejoice, as though they didn’t rejoice; and those who buy, as though they didn’t possess;

³¹ and those who use the world, as not using it to the fullest. For the mode of this world passes away. CCC · Fathers

³² But I desire to have you to be free from cares. He who is unmarried is concerned for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; CCC

³³ but he who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife.

³⁴ There is also a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world – how she may please her husband.

³⁵ This I say for your own benefit, not that I may ensnare you, but for that which is appropriate, and that you may attend to the Lord without distraction.

³⁶ But if any man thinks that he is behaving inappropriately toward his virgin, if she is past the flower of her age, and if need so requires, let him do what he desires. He doesn’t sin. Let them marry.

³⁷ But he who stands steadfast in his heart, having no urgency, but has power over his own will, and has determined in his own heart to keep his own virgin, does well.

³⁸ So then both he who gives his own virgin in marriage does well, and he who doesn’t give her in marriage does better.

³⁹ A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whomever she desires, only in the Lord. CCC

⁴⁰ But she is happier if she stays as she is, in my judgment, and I think that I also have God’s Spirit. CCC

¹ NNow concerning the things whereof you wrote to me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.

² But for fear of fornication, let every man have his own wife: and let every woman have her own husband.

³ Let the husband render the debt to his wife: and the wife also in like manner to the husband.

⁴ The wife hath not power of her own body: but the husband. And in like manner the husband also hath not power of his own body: but the wife.

⁵ Defraud not one another, except, perhaps, by consent, for a time, that you may give yourselves to prayer: and return together again, lest Satan tempt you for your incontinency. Fathers

⁶ But I speak this by indulgence, not by commandment. Fathers

⁷ For I would that all men were even as myself. But every one hath his proper gift from God: one after this manner, and another after that.

⁸ But I say to the unmarried and to the widows: It is good for them if they so continue, even as I.

⁹ But if they do not contain themselves, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to be burnt.

¹⁰ But to them that are married, not I, but the Lord, commandeth that the wife depart not from her husband.

¹¹ And if she depart, that she remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And let not the husband put away his wife.

¹² For to the rest I speak, not the Lord. If any brother hath a wife that believeth not and she consent to dwell with him: let him not put her away. Fathers

¹³ And if any woman hath a husband that believeth not and he consent to dwell with her: let her not put away her husband.

¹⁴ For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the believing wife: and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the believing husband. Otherwise your children should be unclean: but now they are holy. CCC · Fathers

¹⁵ But if the unbeliever depart, let him depart. For a brother or sister is not under servitude in such cases. But God hath called us in peace.

¹⁶ For how knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? Or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife? CCC

¹⁷ But as the Lord hath distributed to every one, as God hath called every one: so let him walk. And so in all churches I teach.

¹⁸ Is any man called, being circumcised? Let him not procure uncircumcision. Is any man called in uncircumcision? Let him not be circumcised.

¹⁹ Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing: but the observance of the commandments of God.

²⁰ Let every man abide in the same calling in which he was called.

²¹ Wast thou called, being a bondman? Care not for it: but if thou mayest be made free, use it rather.

²² For he that is called in the Lord, being a bondman, is the freeman of the Lord. Likewise he that is called, being free, is the bondman of Christ.

²³ You are bought with a price: be not made the bondslaves of men.

²⁴ Brethren, let every man, wherein he was called, therein abide with God.

²⁵ Now, concerning virgins, I have no commandment of the Lord: but I give counsel, as having obtained mercy of the Lord, to be faithful. Fathers

²⁶ I think therefore that this is good for the present necessity: that it is good for a man so to be.

²⁷ Art thou bound to a wife? Seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? Seek not a wife.

²⁸ But if thou take a wife, thou hast not sinned. And if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned: nevertheless, such shall have tribulation of the flesh. But I spare you.

²⁹ This therefore I say, brethren: The time is short. It remaineth, that they also who have wives be as if they had none:

³⁰ And they that weep, as though they wept not: and they that rejoice, as if they rejoiced not: and they that buy as if they possessed not:

³¹ And they that use this world, as if they used it not. For the fashion of this world passeth away. CCC · Fathers

³² But I would have you to be without solicitude. He that is without a wife is solicitous for the things that belong to the Lord: how he may please God. CCC

³³ But he that is with a wife is solicitous for the things of the world: how he may please his wife. And he is divided.

³⁴ And the unmarried woman and the virgin thinketh on the things of the Lord: that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she that is married thinketh on the things of the world: how she may please her husband.

³⁵ And this I speak for your profit, not to cast a snare upon you, but for that which is decent and which may give you power to attend upon the Lord, without impediment.

³⁶ But if any man think that he seemeth dishonoured with regard to his virgin, for that she is above the age, and it must so be: let him do what he will. He sinneth not if she marry.

³⁷ For he that hath determined, being steadfast in his heart, having no necessity, but having power of his own will: and hath judged this in his heart, to keep his virgin, doth well.

³⁸ Therefore both he that giveth his virgin in marriage doth well: and he that giveth her not doth better.

³⁹ A woman is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth: but if her husband die, she is at liberty. Let her marry to whom she will: only in the Lord. CCC

⁴⁰ But more blessed shall she be, if she so remain, according to my counsel. And I think that I also have the spirit of God. CCC