What if we just disagree?
Answered on video by Bishop Robert Barron
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In short: Then disagree well. Assume the best about each other’s words and keep talking. That’s straight from the Catechism. CCC 2478
The answer, in writing
Everyone should interpret a neighbor’s thoughts, words and deeds as favorably as possible. CCC 2478
Quoting St. Ignatius: every good Christian should be readier to give a favorable interpretation to another’s statement than to condemn it. CCC 2478
You can love someone and disagree about God. Keep the dinner table open.
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How we know · 1 Catechism paragraph
- Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraphs 2478 (official text on vatican.va).
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