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What they believe, in five minutes

The whole thing, on one coffee break.

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The Incredible Story of the Nicene Creed (with Bishop James Massa) · Fr. Mike Schmitz and Bishop James Massa

Give it 9 minutes, then come back and we’ll walk through it together.

Video: The Incredible Story of the Nicene Creed (with Bishop James Massa), The Catechism in a Year (with Fr. Mike Schmitz), published Jun 4, 2025. Checked 10 October 2026. Loads from YouTube (privacy-enhanced mode) only when you press play. Watch on YouTube

Catholics believe in one God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit, and that Jesus is true God and true man who rose from the dead. CCC 253 CCC 464 CCC 638 The Eucharist is the source and summit of their life. CCC 1324

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The Trinity, icon by Andrei Rublev: three angels sit in peace around a table with a chalice.

Andrei Rublev, The Trinity, early 15th century. State Tretyakov Gallery, Moscow. Public domain, source.

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All 6 steps in Someone I love is Catholic You’re on step 1
  1. 1. What they believe, in five minutes
  2. 2. Going to Mass with them
  3. 3. Words you’ll hear
  4. 4. Why they care about Sunday, confession and Fridays
  5. 5. Weddings, baptisms and funerals
  6. 6. Talking about it together

Start here5 min read9 min videoChecked 4 October 2026

A dinner in Emmaus

Two friends walked home after the worst weekend of their lives, and a stranger joined them. They only understood who he was when he broke bread at their table.

“When he had sat down at the table with them, he took the bread and gave thanks. Breaking it, he gave it to them. Their eyes were opened and they recognized him; then he vanished out of their sight.”

Luke 24:30-31, World English Bible

You’ll need

  • Five minutes.

Remember Understanding is a way of loving.

Key points

What the Church teaches

You can stop anytime. This asks nothing of you.

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Maybe it’s your girlfriend, your husband, your best friend, or your kid who suddenly started going to Mass. You love them, and now part of their life makes zero sense to you. Good news: the core of it fits on one page. Grab a coffee.

  • There is one God, who made everything and is Father, Son and Holy Spirit. CCC 253
  • Jesus is God become man, who lived, died on a cross and rose from the dead. CCC 464 CCC 638
  • He started a community, the Church, to keep His work going, with the apostles and those who came after them. CCC 1229 CCC 2179
  • He meets people in the sacraments, signs that actually do what they show. CCC 1131
  • The Mass is the center of it all, because Catholics believe Jesus is really there, in what looks like bread and wine. CCC 1324 CCC 1374
  • Life is meant to be lived with God, in prayer, which is just lifting your mind and heart to Him. CCC 2559

That’s why Sunday matters so much to them, why they kneel, why they go quiet in front of a crucifix. You don’t have to believe any of it. But understanding it is a really good way to love them.

To think about

What’s the one thing about their faith you’ve wanted to ask, but haven’t?

Try this, this week

  1. Ask them which of the six points matters most to them, and why.

More from the voices of the revival

What is the Trinity?Bishop Robert Barron · Bishop Robert Barron · Apr 6, 2009 · 3 minYouTube

From the official channels of the teachers named. Links checked 10 October 2026; each film was matched to this topic by its title and channel, so treat it as a starting point. Scripture and the Catechism cited on this page are the authority. All videos by topic.

If this is hard

If their faith feels like a wall between you, that’s common, and it can change. Start with curiosity.

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Step 1 of 6 · Someone I love is Catholic

They invited you to Mass. What actually happens there?

Step 2: Going to Mass with them

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When you’re ready

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Your real next step

This page can’t give you the sacraments. A parish can.

We’re just pointing. People walk with you. Find a Catholic parish near you, go to a Mass, or just ask a priest for ten minutes. You don’t need to have it figured out.

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Sources on this page

How we know · 9 Catechism paragraphs · 1 Bible passage
  1. Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraphs 253, 464, 638, 1131, 1229, 1324, 1374, 2179, 2559 (official text on vatican.va).
  2. Scripture (World English Bible, Catholic edition, public domain; modern verse numbers, Douay-Rheims numbers in brackets where they differ): Luke 24:30-31.
  3. Video: “The Incredible Story of the Nicene Creed,” The Catechism in a Year (with Fr. Mike Schmitz), YouTube (supporting material, not a teaching source).

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